Tuesday Trivia: Songs

1. Thinking herself alone on the beach, she sings while he secretly watches. Then he sings the next line.
HINT: NOT A MUSICAL
Solved by Ben (comment #14).

2. A parade through Chicago with the title character singing from a float in the lead.
Solved by Evn (comment #1).

3. In order to sell sheet music, they perform songs in the music store. He sings it up-tempo, then she takes over and sings it as a ballad.
Solved by Roberta (comment #3).

4. He sings to a bunch of French children as a way of teaching them English.
Solved by Roberta (comment #3).

5. They sing about their marriage while staring blankly into TV monitors.
Solved by Roberta (comment #3).

6. In this film adaptation of a Broadway hit, a song that was cut from the film version can be heard playing on the radio in the main characters’ apartment.
Solved by Roberta (comment #3).

7. They dance to the song while on line to collect their Unemployement checks.
Solved by Roberta (comment #3).

Money is News, News is Money

I totally get tired of all the business reporting on the radio. I like listening to NPR when they’re doing interesting things like All Things Considered, but sometimes it’s like all money, all the time. So fine, when “Market Watch” comes on I change the station.

But this morning, there was this interesting news from Turkey. The vote for President is undecided and there have been voting boycotts. Almost a million people rioted against the candidacy of a conservative Muslim, fearing their secular identity is at risk. So what was the headline on the radio? “Markets in Turkey dropped more than 8% in response to anxiety about…”

This wasn’t the financial news. This was the lead story on the international news segment.

“Markets dropped eight percent”? Not “Protestors filled the streets” or “Turkey’s government in a showdown” or something, y’know, about the story? It’s as if the only way to present news to Americans is to talk about American dollars first. Because otherwise it’s not interesting.

Maybe that’s not just an irritating way to present the news. Maybe it’s actually offensive.

Monday Movie Review: Times Square

Times Square (1980) 8/10
Pam (Trini Alvarado) and Nicky (Robin Johnson) escape from a hospital psychiatric unit and make a life for themselves in the pre-Disneyfied Times Square of New York City. With the help of a popular DJ (Tim Curry) they make their case for freedom and develop a cult following.

Times Square is both a cult movie, and about cults, and seems to be a self-conscious attempt to create a cult about itself (which failed—the real cult following was entirely different).

Although Tim Curry was given top billing, his is a supporting role. The real stars were the two teenage unknowns, Alvarado and Johnson. The story follows these two opposites-who-attract as they escape together from a hospital where they’re undergoing psychiatric and neurological tests. Pam is the daughter of a well-known politician; she is depressed and withdrawn and we clearly see that these tests are her father’s way of throwing money at the problem rather than really be involved with his daughter. Her hospital roommate Nicky is clearly disturbed; she is also exciting, electric and incredibly bold, and Pam is intensely attracted to her.

Curry plays a DJ with a bit of a cult following, and here the movie is clearly playing on Curry’s cult appeal to Rocky Horror fans — in 1980, Curry was still sexy as hell, was recording rock albums (remember I Do the Rock?) and the Rocky Horror cultwas in full swing. I certainly knew fans in the eighties who were happy to form a cult around any movie Curry was in—some were even seeing Annie every week!

Curry’s character reads warm platitudes and heartfelt letters from teenage girls between playing 80s punk and New Wave songs. He realizes that the runaway politician’s daughter has written to him in the past and helps to create a teen cult following for the “Sleez Sisters,” as the girls call themselves.

There’s a lot going on here. The “Sleez” motif stands in opposition to a father who wants to clean up Times Square; of course he and his ilk have won by 2007. Although the movie—through Curry’s voice—is very preachy about this, you also get to see for yourself the vitality and value of the filthy, un-cleaned-up streets.

In addition, there’s the creation of a cult at work. The movie doesn’t much examine what this means, and I had a sneaking suspicion that the real intention of the filmmakers was to create the very cult they depicted, which of course makes the whole thing irritating and heavy-handed. But it’s there and available for the viewer to ask—what happens when something real and vital becomes just another fashion statement? What does fandom do to its object of adoration?

There’s also the story of the liberation of these two girls, which is over-done, and again seems designed to make other girls become adoring fans of the Sleez Sister message, but there’s a core of real beauty to it.

The relationship between the girls is clearly romantic, and that’s where it developed its real cult following—from showings at lesbian festivals. Much of the lesbian content was never filmed, and most of the rest landed on the cutting room floor—so much so that you know there are missing pieces as you watch; it’s often obvious you’re seeing the second part of something without a preceding scene to establish it. Nonetheless, there is passion, adoration, loyalty and tenderness between these girls, and it works.

The first time I saw this movie, I saw the surface stuff; “No Sense Makes Sense” and “they” think that bad girls are crazy. But Nicky clearly is crazy, and the script and acting portray that with a clear eye.

Finally, Times Square has one of the best rock and roll soundtracks around; Suzi Quatro, The Pretenders, D.L. Byron and Patti Smith among others. The soundtrack itself has a cult following, and deservedly so.

Sunday Meditation: Beltane Fires

Last night we celebrated Beltane. A little early but the best Saturday night for the job. It was a fabulous night. We do a lot of fun Beltane stuff every year. A maypole, of course. The “scarf chase” from Eight Sabbats for Witches. Last night, I decided to add a second fire to the ritual space so that we could pass between the Beltane fires. This is a traditional Beltane activity. You passed yourself and/or your cattle and/or your farm implements between two Beltane fires for purification, fertility, and good fortune.

So, before we passed between the fires, I asked everyone to meditate on what they were taking in, and now I ask you to do the same.

Ground and center.

You are going to pass between two fires for “fertility.” What does that mean to you?

Perhaps it is physical fertility. Perhaps you want to conceive, or to give birth to a healthy baby, or for your breast milk to be abundant and nourishing. Perhaps it is the fertility of nurturance, you want food on the table, or a restoration of health or wholeness. Visualize the fertility that is health and growth.

Perhaps you want the fertility of expansion; a new relationship, a new job, a new home, a journey.

Perhaps you seek the fertility of abundance: Love, money, plenty, and joy.

Think about having fertility, and think about taking it in.

Fire warms you. Feel the warmth that comes from the fire and how it reaches deep inside you. How you take it in. How it warms your very cells. The fire becomes a part of you, you will carry it, and its blessings, throughout the year. It will be with you as you enjoy your summer. It will warm you at Samhain.

Take for yourself the blessings of Beltane fires, and let them warm you throughout the year.

So mote it be.

Friday Catblogging

I never tire of these cuddled-together shots
A chairful of kitty

Ten Things

When I saw the title of this article: Then Things to Do to Get Ready to Join a Coven, I was sure I’d dislike it. When I read the first paragraph or so, breezy, fashion mag tone and all, I was absolutely sure I’d dislike it.

But I love it. I adore it. It’s one of the best things I’ve read on the topic. Sample:

1. Learn how to cook.

All Pagans and Witches love to eat. In the twenty-plus years I’ve been practicing Paganism in both coven and community settings, I have rarely if ever attended a ritual that didn’t have some sort of pot-luck feast or meal afterwards. And if everyone brings a lovingly prepared home-cooked dish to the feast and you show up with a bag of potato chips and a container of store-bought dip, it shows a certain lack of maturity on your part. Your willingness to contribute your fair share to the ritual feast may, to others in the coven, reflect your willingness to contribute to coven life as a whole. If you can read, you can learn how to cook.

And it goes on like that. Ten practical, non-spooky, non-oogy, totally smart things you can do with your life to move yourself into a position where you can be a mature, contributing member of a connected group of people.

Read the whole thing.

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“Partial-birth abortion” and the uncertainty of medicine

There are so many things wrong with the recent Supreme Court decision banning “partial birth” abortion that it’s hard to know where to begin. But what’s on my mind today is that there is no exception for the health of the mother, just for the life of the mother. In other words, if giving birth, or having a different, less safe abortion procedure, will make a woman sick, or infertile, or blind, that’s okay, as long as she won’t die.

And in addition to the fact that it’s just a heinous thing to say, that it’s just an evil thing to value a fetus that won’t survive anyway over the health of a human woman, it’s also not what medicine is.

We like to think that it is. We like to think that medicine is the thing where they figure out what’s wrong and what will happen, and they tell you, and that’s what will happen, and they tell you how they’re going to fix it, and they do. But often it’s not like that.

We’re going through a thing in my family now, I don’t want to go into it, but it’s a diagnosis, and then a recovery period, and then a relapse, and then it turns out the first diagnosis was wrong, and then tests, and then more tests, and still no information. But discarding that first diagnosis, throwing us back into uncertainty, that’s what a lot of medicine is like. It’s like “We don’t know so let’s try this and if it doesn’t work we’ll try that and if it doesn’t work we’ll think some more.”

So a woman is bleeding out or septic or whatever. A doctor has to look at the decisions he could make: If she has this procedure she has a really good chance of being fine, and if she has that procedure there’s a greater risk of blood loss but probably she’ll still be fine. And the Supreme Court wants to be a fly on the wall and say, “That’s not a ‘life of the mother’ situation. That’s greater health risk versus lower health risk.” But in fact, the doctor isn’t certain, and in fact, the woman might die.

A year from now, we’re going to have dead women who might have survived had they had the intact D&E procedure falsely named “partial birth abortion.” They will be women who appeared to have a health risk and not a life risk by the uncertain close-one-eye-and-aim world of medicine, and they will be the tragic and enraging posthumous flag-bearers of the fight for reproductive freedom.

Because five men on the Supreme Court decided that health isn’t life. And decided it was up to them to make that decision.

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Non-ode to Roberta

Today is my sister Roberta‘s birthday. Yay Roberta.

On her blog, Roberta does “birthday odes.” As it happens, I have never mastered the art of silly rhyme. So, no ode.

But here’s the thing. Take two people who are really intuitive, really get each other, love to talk, love to interact, and are sisters, and they will be very close, and really love each other. Take two people who are both very verbal, very in-your-face, have intermittently functioning mouth-brain filters, are sarcastic, strong, interesting, challenging, dynamic, and exciting, and they will surely fight and have conflict.

And here are my sister and I. We love each other. We get each other. We enjoy talking with each other. We’ve had spectacular, scary conflicts. And often I am on tiptoes with her because I am, in fact, scared of that level of conflict. I feel ill-equipped for it. Which is stupid, because in fact, Roberta and I are probably way better equipped than most for handling conflict in a grown up way. Also, it’s worth it, because she’s amazing, and because we’re both amazing and we want and deserve and get huge value from a good relationship.

So here’s to Roberta, born on the same day as Ella Fitzgerald, Hank Azaria, and Al Pacino. She is smart, funny, interesting, pretty, and sings like an angel. She is difficult. It is possible that the fact she is difficult makes her even more worthwhile and more wonderful to know. I’m glad she’s my sister. Happy Birthday.