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Sunday Meditation: The Meditation Cloak

Last time, I introduced the concept of a Cloak of Peace, and suggested that it could be used for a variety of purposes. Today, I’d like to continue that exploration.

Let’s start with a couple of caveats. First, you’re going to be building up the energy and efficacy of this cloak over time, over a number of meditation sessions. So choose one concept that is most meaningful to you; one cloak that will be most useful to you. Think about your day to day life and ask yourself: Where do I get into trouble? Where do I stumble? At what moment do I most need a helping hand? I chose “peace” as the helping hand, but yours may be different.

Second, make sure your color symbolism really works for you. You can research various color systems, or you can work intuitively, but make sure the color clearly conveys the feeling you’re going for. You don’t want to change your mind six months down the road. So think about color before creating the cloak.

Finally, you may find this technique so useful and easy that you decide to have a second cloak, in a very different color (and/or fabric and/or style) for a different purpose. But you want to be very good at having and using the one cloak first, so assume you’re only going to have one, and choose the one you want the most.

Okay, now that’s out of the way. Let’s talk about uses for the cloak.

I went to sleep last night thinking of all the things I want to accomplish, and thought about creating a Cloak of Energy. I often feel lazy, dragged out, unmotivated. My knee hurts, I had a long day, there’s something good on TV. Things don’t get done.

What would a cloak of energy be like? I imagine the color should be red (Mars, strength, aggression, motivation), orange (vitality, success, fire), or yellow (the Sun, achievement, ambition, strength). I would make it of a light fabric, like a silk or a jersey, that moved easily as I moved. Maybe even a short cloak, like a capelet, because that feels like something someone energetic would wear. In creating the meditation, I would focus on feelings of excitement, energy, and motivation, and visualize myself accomplishing small household tasks that require lots of moving around (carrying laundry, cleaning off clutter, that sort of thing).

I originally devised this meditation to help with ADHD. Put on the Cloak of Focus in a classroom to help stay focused. There’s a problem with that though, a Catch-22. When you’re unfocused, it’s hard to do the meditation to create the cloak. So the thing to do is to create the cloak and reinforce it when you’re at your most focused. That way, putting it on later will require less focus.

Sunday Meditation: Cloak of Peace

This is a meditation that creates a post-hypnotic suggestion that can be used to help you with ungoing problems. I am here creating a Cloak of Peace that can help with anxiety, but you can use a Cloak of Calm or Focus to help with hyperactivity or restlessnes, you can use a Cloak of Serenity to deal with mood swings or rage, you can use a Cloak of Contentment to help manage depression.

Ground and center.

Breathe in and feel peace. Suffuse yourself with peace.

Breathe out and release anxiety. Anxiety, worries, and unhappy thoughts rush away from you as air leaves your lungs.

Breathe in: Peace.

Breath out: Release anxiety.

As you begin to feel more and more peaceful, visualize yourself putting on a beautiful cloak. It is a lovely color, a color you associate with peace. (For most people, this is a deep sky blue, but you can choose any color you like.)

You are wearing your cloak, and breathing in peace. Notice how peaceful you feel, while visualizing the cloak as clearly as possible. See its color. Feel the texture of the fabric, and the weight of it on your shoulders. Feel the warmth as it envelopes you.

Your cloak envelopes you in peace.

After doing this meditation several times over a period of days, you can begin to put on the cloak in order to feel more peaceful. Say you’re out in public and feel a lot of anxiety. Visualize putting on the cloak. Or you’re sitting down to take your SATs and waves of anxiety hit you. Visualize putting on the cloak. You can put on the cloak before entering into a situation that you know will make you anxious.

It’s important to occasionally do the full meditation, creating peace, putting on the cloak, and then feeling the peace. Do it once in a while even after the cloak is working on its own, to reinforce it.

Wicca on House

House is one of my favorite TV shows. Even when it’s a bad episode, I enjoy it. Last night, there was a mention of Wicca on House, and I thought it was notable.

There’s a film crew doing a documentary about one of House’s patients. They interview Wilson (Robert Sean Leonard) who uses the opportunity to totally punk his best friend, House. He does a whole song and dance about how “the records were sealed” and “he was probably just tapping his toes” and then says “it was a witch hunt” and the documentarians asked if he means House was singled out because…And Wilson interrupts and says “No, I mean literally. House practices the religion of Wicca. It’s a beautiful religion, all about love. They’re very sweet people.”

Okay, if you know what an evil cynic House is, it’s hysterically funny. But notice that (a) What Wilson said about Wicca was positive and nice and fairly accurate, (b) His usage was correct—not “House is a Wicca” like they were always saying on Buffy, but “the religion of Wicca,” and (c) the joke only works if a familiarity with Wicca can be assumed in the audience. And yes, that familiarity includes being bemused and thinking it’s silly—fluffy—but I still think it’s huge progress.

Sunday Meditation: Exploring and Using the Meditation Room

For several months, we’ve created and worked with a Meditation Room. Let’s revisit what we’ve achieved.

You have a peaceful location where you feel good, and in that location is a cottage containing your Meditation Room. When you created this room, you took the key with you, so you would always have it with you.

In the meditation room is a comfortable place to sit, a closet, and a table or shelf. These allow you to return, be comfortable, and find things you need (including surprises).

Whenever you wish you can revisit this room. Note details of decor, lighting, temperature, and texture. This atmosphere is entirely yours, and feels good to you. You can also go to the peaceful place outdoors that approaches the cottage, you don’t even need to enter, if you don’t feel like it, because this, too, is a great place to meditate.

On our next visit, we spent more time creating a comfortable place to sit. We also found a painting in the closet, and hung it so our gaze could rest upon it as we sat in our comfy space. Whenever you wish, you can return to gazing at the painting. You can also take it down and put it back in the closet, and see if there are other paintings in there to explore.

On the table or shelf is a book labeled “Memories.” Whenever you wish to meditate upon your past, you can use this book as a starting point.

Finally, we found that the back of the cottage is an entirely different place than the front; a different outdoor meditation area. There is a wonderful place to sit out here, and you can meditate here whenever you wish. There are also paths leading off into the unknown from here. This “back yard” is a great place to begin pathworking and journeying meditations.

Other than what we’ve already spelled out, how might you use your meditation room?

You can go to the room, or to either outdoor location (front or back) every time you meditate. For example, when working on your chakras, you might come here first, and visualize yourself doing the chakra work in this location rather than your ordinary world. You might also find it is a place of power. When doing a healing work, or using Reiki, you might visualize yourself standing here to gather your power and your focus.

If your cottage has windows, looking out the windows might lead you to new explorations.

There might be other books besides “Memories” on your table.

And whenever you leave, take your key to assure yourself of privacy and a safe return.

Sunday Meditation: Polarity of Earth and Sky

In our Sunday meditations, we almost always mention grounding and centering, and emphasize its importance as the beginning of all meditation.

Today, though, we’re going to use the contrast of grounding into the earth with reaching to the sky to meditate on polarity.

Take a deep breath and let it out.

Again, a deep, deep, lung-expanding breath. Let it out.

Now, feel your breath go all the way down to your hips. Let it out.

Now feel it go all the way to your toes, and let it out.

Visualize the glowing energy of your center, and move that glow down through the lower half of your body, from your middle to the soles of your feet.

Breathing into the glow, feel the energy extend out of your body, down into the earth. If you are standing, you can see the glow coming from the soles of your feet, if you are sitting or lying down, see it coming from the base of your spine. See tendrils of energy reaching out of your body and mingling with the earth.

The rich, moist, cool soil of the earth embraces your tendril of energy.

You are touched by the earth. Mother Earth holds you, and you feel Her love. Allow yourself to know that you are deeply rooted in the earth. Feel Earth energy coming up into your body. Feel rooted and solid and sure.

Now allow the glowing energy of your center to fill the upper part of your body. Breath it out into your arms and hands. Breath it up into your neck and face and head.

Extend the glowing energy that fills you up and out through your crown. Reach past the ceiling and roof if you are indoors, up into the sky. Extend your tendrils past the atmosphere, until you are in the starry blackness of infinite space.

The infinite expanse of the Sky Father embraces you. You are filled with possibility. As you touch the infinite, you know yourself as infinite. You can reach into any adventure, any dream, any choice.

Now notice that the energy from the sky is being fed back into you, coming into your body through your crown, and mingling with your own energy.

Now notice that the energy from the Earth Mother and the Sky Father meet within you. You are Their child and Their meeting place. You are a mixing of possibility and certainty, of solidity and adventure, of infinity and time.

Blessed be.

Honoring the Ancestors

In the Craft, we have a specific ancestor. Some call Gerald Gardner the founder of modern Wicca, some call him a reviver or modernizer or publicizer. But we all owe him a debt of gratitude for his part in the movement that would amaze him today.

A friend traveled to Tunisia and photographed his grave:
Gerald Gardner’s grave marker

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Sunday Meditation: The Ancestors at Samhain

Last night, the ancestors crowded our circle. Their presence crowded our space, the boundaries of the circle swelled with the fullness of spirit within.

We chanted the names of our beloved; departed family members, friends, honored predecessors like Gerald Gardner and Doreen Valiente, pets, and others. As we chanted and later as we ate and drank with them, memories flooded us. My mind couldn’t hold all the names and faces and moments that were rushing to me.

I was particularly moved to know how my family has worked to retain the family connection that let me honor my dead. I know people who really have no idea who their relatives are or were. Who maybe know names but don’t know the people in any kind of real way.

I know these people. I remember these people. I honor these people:

My mother’s parents, Murray and Ann.
Ann’s mother Mollie.
Ann’s sisters Avis and Francis, and her brother Sam.

My father’s parents, Sunny and Jean.
Sunny’s brother Leo.
Jean’s mother Rose.
Jean’s sister Milly (Mimi) and Mimi’s husband Irving, and Jean’s brother Alex.

My step-father Harvey.
Harvey’s brother Kenny and their aunt Evy.

To my honored ancestors: I remember you.

Hindu “fables”

The New York Times has a magnificent slide show of Durga Puja (which they inexplicably spell “pujo” throughout).

However, I draw your attention to the text of slide #6, in which Durga’s slaying of Mahisha (the bull-demon) is referred to as a “fable.” One wonders, does the Times refer to Jesus’s distribution of the loaves and fishes as a fable? Or to Moses’s receiving of the ten commandments? Somehow, I don’t think so.

Sunday Meditation: Samhain is coming

I have begun the process of remembering my dead.

Now, I remember my dead all the time. I think of my Nana, maybe not daily, but several times a week. I think of all of our dead, from Iraq soldiers to 9/11 victims to the collective beloved dead in public life. I honor Robert Altman and Ella Fitzgerald and Ray Walston and Thomas Jefferson.

But at Samhain, we gather our dead close to us and raise a toast to them, or share a meal with them, or break bread with them.

So now, in the days leading up to our most holy festival, is a time to meditate on your beloved dead. Who do you remember and what do you remember about them? How can you best enjoy your time with them when the veil is thinnest? Will you tell a story about them, or will you tell them a story about you? What foods might you prepare that were favorites of your departed? What drinks might you serve? What mementos might you gather for your ancestor altar.

A friend just sent me photographs of Gerald Gardner’s grave in Tunisia. These will certainly be a part of my ancestor altar. And some pictures I always bring out once a year; a picture of John and I together just days before he died, a lovely card that Scott Cunningham sent me, a picture of my grandfather I’ve treasured since I was a little girl. But now is a time to meditate on that altar, and think, what is meaningful to me now, today? What is my relationship with these people? Who belongs on that altar?

May these meditations be productive, and may your Samhain be blessed.

Gay rights are religious rights

Today is National Coming Out Day. Last year, I wrote about gay rights as relational rights. This year, I’d like to talk about how gay rights are religious rights.

Gay rights, yes, are civil rights, and are amply justified in the Constitution under “equal protection,” not to mention “pursuit of happiness.” But we tend to bury the fact that religious liberty is also at stake.

The entire notion that there’s something wrong with being gay, something unacceptable, is a religious one. It’s based in the Bible or the Koran or some other bookish thingy. So why should those who do not follow those books be bound by their laws?

There is lots of room for gay people, and indeed for gay marriage, in most Pagan religions. As a Wiccan Priestess, I would be happy to perform a handfasting (marriage) ceremony for a gay couple. But while I can perform such a ceremony for a straight couple and have it legally recognized, the same-sex handfasting cannot be recognized. Since they are equal in the eyes of my religion, isn’t that State interference with religion?

You’ll see them say it. You’ll see them say marriage is “sacred.” If it’s sacred, it belongs to religion and religion alone; keep the State out of it. If it’s not sacred, if it’s civil, then everyone should have an equal shot at it.